National Cancer Survivor Day

National Cancer Survivor Day

Even though it’s National Cancer Survivor Day, I myself had breast cancer and much of what I do professionally, and personally, since my diagnosis revolves around Breast Cancer positivity, let it be known that the term “cancer survivor” really bothers me. While some may see the word “survivor” as an act of accomplishment, others, like me, think the term discredits those who didn't survive the disease. 

 

The term “cancer survivor” has had many definitions over the years. Physician Fitzhugh Mullan, himself once diagnosed with cancer and a co-founder of the National Coalition for Cancer Survivorship, is sometimes credited with popularizing the term, defining survival in 1985 as beginning “at the point of diagnosis.” Today, many organizations, including the National Cancer Institute, denote that survivorship extends from diagnosis through the end of life. Others define survivors as those who have completed treatment or who have no remaining evidence of disease. Or does it mean people at all stages of their cancer journey? 

 

Furthermore, does this random act of cell mutation create a fight “survivors” need to face, as though women could train for the battle or possess some inner skill to overcome it?  Or aren't we all fighters? Just because I am 19 years out of the woods doesn't mean that I fought any more or less than the girl who died. 

 

I know I have more questions than answers when trying to evaluate what survivorship should denote. So maybe when it comes to National Cancer Survivor Day, let’s recognize—not celebrate—not only those diagnosed and clear of the disease but also those who died from it. And start discussing this in more practical terms and focus on the woman as an individual and help her reach inside to find hope, strength and the means to beat the disease with treatment, self-care, and spirit. This where the real fight takes place. And often, some aren’t up for the fight. And should never be thought of any less for that.

 

To that last point, let’s all take a beat and realize that when faced with this vile POS disease, no one ever is asked if they’re ready to fight or survive. Like a tornado dropping out of the sky, those who perish and those who don’t can be separated by mere inches. Instead of celebrating or mourning the outcome for those stricken, let’s recognize and support those hit by the storm. And do what we all can do to know that we can take steps to protect us from life’s elements. 

 

And remember that as life’s skies change from inspiring to insipid evil, it might not matter. 

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